There’s a technique that you can use to give yourself a huge advantage over other men when it comes to attracting women. It’s a technique that great marketers and great advertisers use to increase the perceived VALUE of the products and services that they sell. And if you don’t already know, having high value is something that is VERY important if you want to attract women.
Beautiful women are not attracted to men who they perceive has having lower value than themselves.
And most guys unconsciously communicate to a woman they’re attracted to that they are low value.
A guy will do things like call her ten times a day. At her request, he will instantly drop everything he is doing to go tend to her needs. He will only say things that he knows won’t upset or offend her. He will chase her and buy her expensive gifts. And generally be at her every beck and call.
Essentially what is going on her is he’s putting her on a pedestal and worshiping her as this amazing goddess that he needs to please.
Attractive women HATE that.
So what can you do to increase your perceived value in the eyes of beautiful women?
Well, the actions I’ve just outlined above describes a man who is too available. The technique that I’m about to reveal is being the exact opposite of available.
What you need to do is to make yourself scarce.
Once you get a woman’s attention and have built a good level of attraction and rapport, pull back. Make her come to you.
Do things like deny her first request to hang out. Tell her you’re busy and only call her a few times a week. Act indifferent towards her. End things early once in a while especially when she is enjoying herself the most. Let a few of her calls go to voice mail.
And most importantly, you need to come across as the kind of guy who will walk away at a moments notice if things aren’t enjoyable for YOU.
This shifts the power back in your favor and allows you to gain control of the relationship.